What are the common symptoms of anxiety?
Anxiety can feel different in different bodies. Common symptoms include:
excessive worry, restlessness, fatigue, irritability, muscle tension, racing thoughts, sleep problems, physical symptoms (like shortness of breath or rapid heartbeat), avoidance behavior, and cognitive difficulties.
What is polyvagal theory?
Polyvagal theory, developed by Stephen Porges, explains how the autonomic nervous system influences our responses to stress and safety. It describes three interconnected pathways: the social engagement system for connection, the sympathetic fight-or-flight response for mobilization, and the dorsal vagal complex for shutdown.
Sometimes we can get stuck in one of these states from trauma or other challenging experiences. It’s like our body gets comfortable with a certain response, and it becomes our go-to, even when it might not be the best fit for the situation. For example, some folks might find themselves stuck in fight-or-flight mode, always on high alert, even in non-threatening situations. Others might get stuck in shutdown mode, feeling numb and disconnected when things get tough.
Being aware of these patterns can help us work on finding a better balance. We can learn techniques to regulate our autonomic nervous system and shift from one state to another when needed. So, if you find yourself getting stuck in one mode, you’re not alone! With some practice and support from a therapist with a polyvagal lens, you can help your body find its way back to a healthier and more flexible response to stress and safety.
What can I do today to manage my anxiety?
There are some things you can do to feel a little bit better in the right here right now. These include:
It’s never too early or too late to reach out for help with your anxiety. Therapy can be incredibly helpful too to help you explore the root of your anxiety, develop coping mechanisms, and provide a safe space to express your thoughts and feelings.